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Principles
and Practice of Hindu Religion
A
Comprehensive Study of the Ancient Tradition and
the Perennial Philosophy
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The
Hindu Wedding or Sanskara of Vivaha
Sapthapathi
Manthras - its meaning
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The
Saptapathi rites involves taking seven steps walking around the fire.
According to Hindu Law codes [Yalgnavakya Smrithi], completion of
the seventh step is the moment of completion of marriage for all legal
purposes. For each step they say a manthra as follows:
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[In
many traditions, they may use a much shorter version of these manthras
-- see below]
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1
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Step
1. Groom: "My
beloved, our love became firm by walking one step with me. You will
offer me the food and be helpful in every way. I will cherish you
and provide for the welfare and happiness of you and our children.
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Step
1. Bride: " This is my humble submission to you, my lord
. You kindly gave me responsibility of the home, food and taking charge
of the finance. I promise you that I shall discharge all responsibilities
for the welfare of the family and children.
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2
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Step
2. Groom : My beloved, you have now walked the second step with
me. Fill my heart with strength and courage and together we shall
protect the household and children.
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Step
2. Bride: My lord, in your grief, I shall fill your heart with
strength, In your happiness, I shall rejoice. I promise you that I
will please you always with sweet words and take care of the family
and children and you shall love me alone as your wife.
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3
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Step
3. Groom: My beloved, now you have walked three steps with me.
By virtue of this, our wealth and prosperity are bound to grow. I
shall look upon all other women as my sisters. Together, we will educate
our children and may they live long.
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Step
3. Bride: My lord, I will love you with single minded devotion
as my husband. I will treat all other men as my brothers. My devotion
to you is of a chaste wife and you are my joy. This is my commitment
and pledge to you.
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4
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Step
4. Groom: My beloved, it is a great blessing that you have walked
four steps with me. You have brought auspeciousness and sacredness
into my life. May we be blessed with obedient and noble children.
May they be blessed with long life.
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Step
4. Bride: My lord, I will decorate you from your feet up with
flowers, garlands and anoint you with sandal wood paste and fragrance.
I will serve you and please you in every way.
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5
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Step
5. Groom: My beloved, now that you have walked the five steps
with me, you have enriched my life. May God bless you. May our loved
ones live long and share in our prosperity.
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Step
5. Bride: My lord, I share both in your joys and sorrows. Your
love will make me trust and honor you. I will carry out your wishes.
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6
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Step
6. Groom: My beloved, you have filled my heart with happiness
by walking six steps with me. May you fill my heart with great joy
and peace from time to time.
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Step
6. Bride: My lord, in all acts of righteousness, in material prosperity
and in every form of enjoyment and divine acts, I promise you that
I shall participate and shall always be with you.
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7
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Step
7. Groom: My beloved, as you walked the seven steps with me, our
Love and friendship became eternal. We experienced spiritual union
in God. Now you have become completely mine and I offer my life to
you. Our marriage will be for ever.
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Step
7. Bride: My lord, as per the law of God and the Holy scriptures
[Vedas] I have become your spouse. Whatever promises we gave, we have
spoken with pure mind. We will be truthful to each other in all things.
We will love each other for ever.
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After
these seven steps, the marriage become legal by Hindu law codes.
Then, they both say: "Now let us make a vow together. We shall
share the same food,
share the strengths, the same tastes. We shall be of one mind, we
shall observe the vows together; I shall be the Sama, you the Rigveda;
I shall be upper world, you the earth; I shall be the Sukhilam. you
the Holder; Together we shall live and beget children, and other riches.
Come thou, Oh, sweet-worded girl."
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